sex

Becoming the New Norm

Becoming the New Norm

Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature.  For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and family, have tried to nullify all but the most rudimentary dimensions of our sexual nature, and project their own superstition and fear onto anything that deviates from their narrow view….

Masturbation

Masturbation

I mean, May is National Masturbation Month after all, right? Okay then…First, the basics. Masturbation is when an individual stimulates their genitals for sexual pleasure, which may or may not lead to orgasm. Masturbation is common among men and women of all ages and plays a role in one’s healthy sexual development. People masturbate for…

Control and Release

Control and Release

“Time’s up. Get out and get ready for it.” He smiled as He walked back out of the bathroom. she felt that familiar flutter of excitement. she was soaking in the tub as required but had no idea what happened next. she got up, dried herself off and prepared her skin for Impact, bondage and…

Uh Oh!

Uh Oh!

“Is there something you want to tell me about?” she stopped cold and surveyed her surroundings. The whoosh of the ceiling fan was the only sound in the room. There was a chair positioned in the center of the room. A covered table was near the chair. A snap of His fingers jolted her back….

An Unexpected Lesson

An Unexpected Lesson

“Wake up. NOW, bitch.” He was shaking her foot. she was startled as she opened her eyes and tried to focus. And right at that moment, He dragged her out of the bed by her ankles. she tried to brace her head; then realized it probably looked like she was struggling. Not good. Once she…

Enema Play 101

Enema Play 101

Heyyy, y’all! Erotic Enemas are enjoyed by a wide number of the population. Dr. Joanne Denko coined the work Klismaphilia to describe the practices of people who enjoyed the use of enemas as a sexual stimulant. Enema Play has a strong appeal to those who enjoy anal stimulation. For those who are into Dominance and…

What to Expect From a Play Party?

What to Expect From a Play Party?

In laymen’s terms, a play party is usually a private event that hosted by someone in a private setting (Home, private or rented dungeon etc.) They are sometimes held after another more public event, such as a munch. *Disclaimer Please remember that there is no guarantee that there will be a party after any event,…

‘Sup, Y/y’all! Who’s familiar with “Words have power?” this girl is fairly certain that W/we all have heard it or even said it before. But in what context? To some folks that phrase has more significance than it does to others. Words DEFINITELY have power, Y/y’all. So let’s look at how powerful some words and…

BDSM and Sex

BDSM and Sex

A common misconception that causes havoc at times in the kink community is that BDSM, sex and/or love automatically must go together. While this statement may ring true for a lot of people, it is not true for everyone. It is important not to make the assumption. For many of us, BDSM is the richest…

Location, Location,LOCATION!!!

Location, Location,LOCATION!!!

Heyyy, y’all! O/our Thing is vast, exciting, challenging, exhilarating and exhausting under ideal circumstances. But add lack of opportunity to that mix and things can get even more interesting. There are folks who live in rural areas or metropolitan but less Kink positive cities. That sucks, right? Imagine trying to live your best kinky life…