Thoughts Regarding Service
Matthias Black
August 30, 2022
Service is an important part of most D/s and M/s relationships. The term “service” can be applied to both sides of these relationships, but this
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Thoughts Regarding Service
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“Just. Like. That.”
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“Wait…WHAT?!”
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Worship the D
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Matthias Black
August 30, 2022
There are guides and mentors in every area of life and situation. In BDSMit is oftentimes recommended that those who are new to BDSM acquire
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Castar Daemon
August 30, 2022
I’ve noticed in my many years of being in the “communities”, that with this new generation of kinksters, comes an influx of what some people
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SmutHustler
August 30, 2022
Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily life. I am committed to
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Matthias Black
August 30, 2022
Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature. For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and
Worship the D
kinky smurf
August 30, 2022
She was knelt before him, the outline of his cock calling to her only inches away. His symbol of power and potency firm and erect
Masturbation
Matthias Black
August 30, 2022
I mean, May is National Masturbation Month after all, right? Okay then…First, the basics. Masturbation is when an individual stimulates their genitals for sexual pleasure,
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Castar Daemon
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Matthias Black
August 30, 2022
Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out
“Just. Like. That.”
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she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed
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“FOCUS, woman!” she was supposed to be reviewing a Lesson Plan. But instead…she was thinking of HIM. He was so attentive and accessible. she can