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July 29, 2021
Most partners engaging in BDSM for the first time do have challenges trying to plan on how they want the whole session to go. Indeed,
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Regina Charlisa
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“Once Upon A Time…” She walked in and began to kneel. He said, “No…Inspection.” She obeyed. She looked at Him; His eyes were…different. She looked
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Matthias Black
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If you are new to BDSM, or impact play specifically, you might wonder what to do about your conspicuously hot post-play marks or “treasures” as
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Regina Charlisa
July 21, 2021
ne·go·ti·a·tion /nəˌɡōSHēˈāSH(ə)n noun Heyyy, Y/y’all! Entering into a BDSM relationship is much like getting into any other type of relationship. However it is also unlike
Releasing the Inner Animal
Matthias Black
July 15, 2021
*cue tribal drums* All of us have it…An aggressive inner force, an animalistic energy that we encounter occasionally, usually in times of extreme emotional or
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Regina Charlisa
July 14, 2021
Heyyy, Y/y’all! Okay, so Y/you see something that intrigues Y/you and say to yourself, “S/self…I like that! I think I am using/trying that one!” Okay
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Matthias Black
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Disclaimer: Just a reminder that these opinions are mine and mine alone based on what I have personally witnessed or heard throughout my journey that
Location, Location,LOCATION!!!
Regina Charlisa
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Heyyy, y’all! O/our Thing is vast, exciting, challenging, exhilarating and exhausting under ideal circumstances. But add lack of opportunity to that mix and things can
Handling Arguments
Matthias Black
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I think one reason that the answer did not come to me straight away is that Dahlia and I do not argue on a regular basis.
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Castar Daemon
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Part Three of a Ten part Series Greetings to all you wonderful readers out there. Today I hope to inspire the mind by continuing on
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Matthias Black
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Matthias Black
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