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Thoughts Regarding Service

Thoughts Regarding Service

Service is an important part of most D/s and M/s relationships. The term “service” can be applied to both sides of these relationships, but this discussion will be limited to the more obvious service rendered by the bottom, submissive or slave. Disclaimer: I will also be using the terms Master and slave as well as…

Littles,  Middles, and Bigs, oh my!

Littles, Middles, and Bigs, oh my!

I’ve noticed in my many years of being in the “communities”, that with this new generation of kinksters, comes an influx of what some people call a “controversial” archetype… The Little and Age-player. There seems to be a misunderstanding of the littles, middles, princesses, princes, young royals, and even liddles. Some say they are part…

Impact Play

Impact Play

Basics Before Play Impact play is by far one of my favorite kinks and the most common in my daily  life. I am committed to turning anything into an impact tool. In this first section, we will discuss the basics before impact play. We will also discuss Prep and headspace, spankings, flogging, whipping, caning and…

Becoming the New Norm

Becoming the New Norm

Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature.  For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and family, have tried to nullify all but the most rudimentary dimensions of our sexual nature, and project their own superstition and fear onto anything that deviates from their narrow view….

Worship the D

Worship the D

She was knelt before him, the outline of his cock calling to her only inches away. His symbol of power and potency firm and erect as she grasped his zipper between her teeth. Gently she unbuttoned his pants with her hands and pulled back and down on his zipper easing his pants down and his…

What Makes a “Good” Dominant

What Makes a “Good” Dominant

Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out of necessity. It seems as if every single day, I come across someone who dropped every bit of common sense in the name of submission. These are the people need…

“Just. Like. That.”

“Just. Like. That.”

she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed peace. After Daddy called her and listened to her venting He quietly responded, “I’ll fix it, baby. When you complete your tasks, go ahead and soak in the tub. See…

“Wait…WHAT?!”

“Wait…WHAT?!”

“I suppose you think it’s acceptable to do a sloppy job. Time to teach you another lesson.” The words stung like a Dragon’s Tail. she knew the next few hours will suck. “Apologies, Sir.” As her heart raced, she braced herself for the consequences of her actions. He replied, barely above a whisper, “Noted.” As…

Reasons

Reasons

“FOCUS, woman!” she was supposed to be reviewing a Lesson Plan. But instead…she was thinking of HIM. He was so attentive and accessible. she can think of one way to show her affection, admiration and appreciation if He will be gracious enough to allow it. she is always eager, yet patient…inhaling His scent, so intoxicating….

Using Gender in BDSM Play

Using Gender in BDSM Play

*Special thanks to Blazing Unicorn (They/Them) and their bottom, Panda Scare (They/Them) for assistance and clarification with this article. Girls wear pink, boys wear blue…Period. After all, that is it and nothing more. Unfortunately, this is the archaic and erroneous mindset some people have when it comes down to what gender is and should be even…