Enema Play 101
Heyyy, y’all! Erotic Enemas are enjoyed by a wide number of the population. Dr. Joanne Denko coined the work Klismaphilia to describe the practices of people who enjoyed the use of enemas as a sexual stimulant. Enema Play has a strong appeal to those who enjoy anal stimulation. For those who are into Dominance and…
Regina Charlisa
What to Expect From a Play Party?
In laymen’s terms, a play party is usually a private event that hosted by someone in a private setting (Home, private or rented dungeon etc.) They are sometimes held after another more public event, such as a munch. *Disclaimer Please remember that there is no guarantee that there will be a party after any event,…
Matthias Black
The Cat’s Out Of The Bag!
Okay…let’s get into this. Some of U/us spent years leading double lives. W/we work, socialize, raise families, etc…all while having desires and needs that most folks might consider dangerous. Losing custody of children, breaking the law type dangerous. So W/we kept a large part of who W/we truly are hidden. We might do this because…
Water Sports
Water sports or golden showers (commonly abbreviated g.s.) is defined as playing with urine/pee/piss. It can be urinating on or in the submissive, making the submissive drink urine or any other urine oriented BDSM activity. There is debate as to whether water sports qualify as “edge play”…It may or may not, depending on the practitioners…
‘Sup, Y/y’all! Who’s familiar with “Words have power?” this girl is fairly certain that W/we all have heard it or even said it before. But in what context? To some folks that phrase has more significance than it does to others. Words DEFINITELY have power, Y/y’all. So let’s look at how powerful some words and…
Meeting People In The Scene
“How do I meet people?” If I had a dollar for every time I read or was asked this question…Well, let’s just say, I would be writing this article on a small yacht somewhere off the Florida Keys. For some naturally charismatic, outgoing extroverts (Gives my submissive the side-eye) this is easy, people just flock naturally to…
“Rabbit Holes and Butterflies”
fren·zy /ˈfrenzē/ noun a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior. Okay, y’all…let’s do this. Vicenza Italy, 1994. this girl and her hubby were invited to a private party at a villa. she saw things that changed her forever. she became obsessed. she wanted to try EVERYTHING. she watched tons of porn, bought…
BDSM and Sex
A common misconception that causes havoc at times in the kink community is that BDSM, sex and/or love automatically must go together. While this statement may ring true for a lot of people, it is not true for everyone. It is important not to make the assumption. For many of us, BDSM is the richest…
“W/we Need U/us!”
How many of Y/you have seen the movie “Backdraft?” The firefighters had a motto whenever one of them was about to fall and the others grabbed them and held on. They would say, “You go…WE GO!” That has stuck with this girl all these years. To be so committed to someone that you would risk…
Your First BDSM Scene
Most partners engaging in BDSM for the first time do have challenges trying to plan on how they want the whole session to go. Indeed, planning such scenes can be quite personal, however, the guidelines below to help you plan better. -Create your goals You will have to decide on your expectations and the roles…