Thoughts Regarding Service
Service is an important part of most D/s and M/s relationships. The term “service” can be applied to both sides of these relationships, but this discussion will be limited to the more obvious service rendered by the bottom, submissive or slave. Disclaimer: I will also be using the terms Master and slave as well as…
Matthias Black
Finding a Mentor
There are guides and mentors in every area of life and situation. In BDSMit is oftentimes recommended that those who are new to BDSM acquire amentor but are really never given the tools to find a mentor that is rightfor them. I know that when I first started out, I was quite fortunate tofind good…
Becoming the New Norm
Fetish Sex, Kink and D/s BDSM are oftentimes the most vilified, feared and misunderstood dimension of our sexual nature. For centuries, culture, religion, morality, and family, have tried to nullify all but the most rudimentary dimensions of our sexual nature, and project their own superstition and fear onto anything that deviates from their narrow view….
The Daily Struggle
How to help guide and monitor ones S type One of the very asked, yet hard to define questions about living a 24\7 dynamic are the “How-tos.” How to do this. How to do that. Et cetera, et cetera, you get the idea. For me, in my experience, through trial and error, it is best…
Castar Daemon
What Makes a “Good” Dominant
Anyone who talks about BDSM often spends a lot of time talking about the posers, wannabes, and fake Dominants…Myself included. Part of it is out of necessity. It seems as if every single day, I come across someone who dropped every bit of common sense in the name of submission. These are the people need…
“Just. Like. That.”
she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed peace. After Daddy called her and listened to her venting He quietly responded, “I’ll fix it, baby. When you complete your tasks, go ahead and soak in the tub. See…
Regina Charlisa
Reasons
“FOCUS, woman!” she was supposed to be reviewing a Lesson Plan. But instead…she was thinking of HIM. He was so attentive and accessible. she can think of one way to show her affection, admiration and appreciation if He will be gracious enough to allow it. she is always eager, yet patient…inhaling His scent, so intoxicating….
“(C)hallenging (B)ut (T)hrilling”
the toy.“You disgust me.” The words cut through the air and straight into his heart. He fell to his knees on the cold bathroom floor. “Forgive this toy, please, Regina.” He held his head down. “Stand up. You aren’t worthy of kneeling at my feet. Hands above your head, soldier.” As he did as he…
A Rush Of Excitement
As he locked the door behind him, she smiled. “You look beautiful, Regina. Love your outfit, Regina.” She chuckled. “Get undressed. NOW.” Sitting behind the large desk, She watched with pride as he began to take off his uniform. he was tall, strong, confident. And he was all Hers. A rush of excitement flowed throughout…
Daddies and Mommies and Littles, Oh My!
Ever hear someone call their partner “Daddy” or “Mommy” and feel a little grossed out? Does the idea of an adult identifying as a “little” make you wonder what is wrong with them or wonder what that even means? Granted…While there are some sick people in the world, the Mommy/Daddy/little dynamic in D/s relationships has…